Parents & Money Trouble Leading to Divorce?

You made a vow to your wife to stay with her until death do you part. You made no such vow to your parents. Your loyalty lies with your wife. Your parents cheated you out of money that was rightfully yours - I don't know why you are balking at holding them accountable for it. Finally, one piece of advice: your life is one that is controlled by other people. It's time to grow up, be a man, and start making your decisions based on what is best for you and for those for whom you are responsible. Stop letting cirstances make your decisions for you, and take control of your life.