Are Asian guys unattractive ?

some are cute, some are not, i'm not gonna be racist against my own race either (i'm chink/viet as well), i find some asians are hot too, especially the tall one since i'm above average and don't like short guys. I've dated asians before and now i'm ending up with a big white guy. and what i care most is how he treats me and whatnot. no offense but asians don't show alot of affections, and most of them are controlling.